objectification fetish

What is an objectification fetish?

Objectification as a kink or fetish is a type of humiliation play which can form part of BDSM activities. For someone who enjoys this type of kink it can be really powerful, but it is something that is often misunderstood and it is frequently treated with caution due to the […]

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How to Introduce Role-Playing to Your Relationship

‘How to introduce role-playing to your relationship’ is a guest post written by Daria Roman of Silicon Wives. In the post Daria gives some ideas and suggestions about the way role playing might work and what it could add to a relationship. Missy. Every relationship can have a tougher time, […]

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Lola in fishnets

Things felt like they had been slipping for a while and she knew she needed to do something to get them back. It was hard though as in many ways she didn’t have the energy or the inclination. That was part of the issue really. They sort of mirrored each […]

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Objectification as a Kink

I have an objectification kink.  I always feel a bit embarrassed about that because it seems wrong to want such a thing, but then again I guess a lot kink seems a little wrong, in a good way of course.  I don’t enjoy just any objectification though so it has […]

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He bought us a speculum

When His Lordship first announced with some glee, that he had bought us a speculum, I must admit I was fearful. I think he was surprised because I had told him that I often thought about medical play, that it turned me on, and that it was one of my […]

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Naughty Schoolgirl

“I thought that you wanted me to be your mentor and now I hear that you have been telling the other girls that I am in love with you.  That’s what you think is it?  That I am in love with you?” “N n no Sir,” I stammer. I feel […]

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Advent 2020

Elf on the Shelf

Actually it is more a case of Elf on the bondage bench but it didn’t seem to have quite the same ring.  Day 8 of our D/s Advent Calendar saw the return of the Naughty Elf with the instruction below: 8 – Naughty Elf . Uh oh – Elf’s back. The […]

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Playing Roles

I was pleased to see that the kink of the week topic this time was role-play.  I like role-play and I thought that it was something I could write about. Then I realised that I ALREADY HAD! so the post I would have written is there if you want to read about […]

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Rules, Resets and Roleplay

A to Z Challenge – R My first R is RULES but for us this probably needs a mention to rituals as well as the two go hand in hand. Our rules, and rituals, have changed and grown with us. We started simple with just a few but have added […]

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We recently had a chat at The SafeworD/s Club about Roleplay. In my preamble to the topic I described roleplay as the marmite of BDSM as people either seem to love or to hate it. It turned out that most of us who attended the chat were fans, although we’d […]

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Arabian Nights

Arabian Nights – A Fantasy for Sir

This is my number 14. As Sir is travelling home today, I wanted him to have something to read. I have long since promised to write out one of my fantasies for him. This is one we have talked about at the later stage so I thought that I would […]

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Schoolgirl Scene

There can be a variety of ways to start a schoolgirl scene but on this occasion I am simply instructed to have a bath, prepare myself, and then get changed into the clothes that he will leave outside the bathroom. I love this part of a scene, getting ready; it […]

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21. School's Out!

Woohoo – last day at work and then no more school for two weeks.  So to mark the occasion, I hope to be allowed to be Sir’s very own naughty schoolgirl this evening. 

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10. Kings and Courtesans

Today is Saturday so I wanted to have some fun.  The theme is simple: Sir is my King and I will be his courtesan.  I am not sure what this will involve and what he will require of me, but hopefully it will set the scene for some real fun.

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