Gloves because Baby It’s Cold Outside

Number two in our advent calendar was ‘Gloves because Baby It’s Cold Outside.’  I was pretty surprised with this one and it wasn’t really what I had expected. This can be a good thing and it was. The weather has turned pretty cold up here and I couldn’t seem to […]

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D/s Advent Calendar 2019

D/s Advent Calendar 2019

It is that time again. Well actually it is four days into that time again but although my post is late, my submissive slant on advent is underway. Actually we weren’t sure we would do anything to mark advent this year. I think we swayed because we have done it […]

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Too late to apologise

Too late to apologise

She had been sidetracked on her laptop. She had started off Christmas shopping as there were so many deals on, but had also been lured into social media. She really wasn’t aware of the time until she heard the door click and his footsteps. Her stomach turned a little. She […]

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Hat and Heels

Hat and Heels

The prompt for Sinful Sunday this week is the letter H. I hummed and hawed (very on prompt) over which H to submit: Handcuffs, hood, headband? Or something more active? Hand job, honour bondage or humiliation. What about a hog -tie? In the end I broke with habit and settled […]

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masturbation sunday

Masturbation Sunday

Recently things have been crazy full on.  I have new routine, following my re-acquisition of the home and kitchen, when HL went back to work full time. I feel much happier and more connected to be honest, but I am also much busier. I feel a little bit like a […]

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electro-play

Electro-play – Master’s Touch

HisLordship has said that we will be doing electro-play. I am lying on the bed, face down and he is securing the pads of the ElectraStim, one to each bum cheek.  We have found that this way works best for us and is where I can really enjoy the sensation […]

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dreams

I have spread my dreams under your feet

I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams. These lines are taken from one of my favourite poems, The Cloths of Heaven by W B Yeats. I wrote a short piece about the poem before and when I did, described my dreams […]

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Friends

I get by with a little help from my friends

I have always enjoyed having friends in the real world and for a time, when I was unhappy in my former marriage, friendships were what I focussed on and what kept me going. I was a bit of a party girl, hosting events and organising get togethers and dinners whenever […]

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Friends

Back to Work

Next week is back to work for me. Having a 6 week holiday is fantastic although it means that I slip very easily into a different life. It has felt like a good fit and although I love my job, I feel a bit reluctant to go back to rushing […]

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denim

My love is denim

Denim is a love that never fades ~ Elio Fiorucci To see who else is posting an image this week for Sinful Sunday please kiss the lips above. Or Click here to see more of my Sinful Sunday Posts

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taboo

Taboo, or not taboo, that is the question

Well cast me out and curse me right now as I am going to be honest here; things which are taboo turn me on. That doesn’t mean that I am turned on by all things wrong of course, but what it does mean is that if I see something as […]

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faceless

Faceless

This is the one place in the world where I am faceless. Everywhere else I have a face and that says different things about me to different people. I don’t think my face is consistently translated either; it depends on the perception and experience of that particular person. One day […]

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Dom in a suit

Dom in a Suit

Dom in a suit is a post which follows on from When it’s complicated, and gives a little more detail about one of the main ways that our dynamic was affected by the shift caused by the work situation that we found ourselves in. It marks the return of HL to […]

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Complicated

When it’s complicated

Complicated is a word that I have used to describe the changes that we have dealt with over the past while. I try not to speak in negative terms because that feels unfair when we are so lucky and we have so much. What was difficult was dealing with the […]

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selfie

The Innocent Selfie

HL is a fan of the selfie. In fact, it is one of the ways that he uses to remind me of his ownership of me. Sunday: I will require you to send me a picture of you in your underwear each morning this week. A simple enough instruction on […]

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Living in a D/s power exchange

Living in a D/s Power Exchange

What is a power exchange An agreed power exchange is what makes our relationship a Dominant and submissive one. Most relationships consider themselves to be equal ones which means that each partner takes it in turns to lead. Some may consider themselves more traditional where the male always takes the […]

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Perfect

Keeping up with Miss Perfect

It is not easy to keep up with Miss Perfect. She’s so so bloody perfect, after all.  Not that she actually is, she just sets herself standards which make it seem that way. To herself, and to others. It’s exhausting and it’s daunting and it can be quite destructive. Perfection […]

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At the centre

At the Centre: being the stars of your own show

We are at the centre. And that has been, and remains, our secret. Staying at the centre is a knack, that’s for sure, but it’s made easier by the structure and the routine that we have. We have both been in relationships previously where we weren’t at the centre, where […]

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Crazy

Crazy for You and for Everything

Crazy feels good for me. It holds an attraction that I just can’t shake and this has been with me for a long time. I am very normal. And I know better than to use that word – it alienates and it excludes, but it is anyway. And in many […]

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