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Playing Roles

I was pleased to see that the kink of the week topic this time was role-play.  I like role-play and I thought that it was something I could write about. Then I realised that I ALREADY HAD! so the post I would have written is there if you want to read about […]

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Exhibitionism

The definition of exhibitionism as, extravagant behaviour that is intended to attract attention to oneself, or in terms of psychiatry, a mental condition characterized by the compulsion to display one’s genitals in public, both have negative connotations. In the kink world, where there are negative connotations for just about every act we enjoy, […]

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Doggy Style – Kink of the Week

I love rough sex and I love being used. Not all the time of course, and it is probably only because I am in the relationship that I am that I want to be taken this way sometimes. To be pushed or commanded up onto my hands and knees is […]

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Kink, Kids and Kneeling

A to Z Challenge – K An obvious for K would have to be KINK. Being Kinky is something I wrote about at the very beginning of my blog, but as time has moved on and we have explored different types of play more and more, I began to feel like what […]

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Hooked

“You said everything I needed to hear. I’m hooked now. You have me. What are you going to do with me?” Abbi Glines, Fallen Too Far Last night we found ourselves with a lucky couple of hours alone. HisLordship is not one to miss an opportunity and I quickly found myself […]

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A Tail of the Unexpected

Wearing a tail is something that I once fantasised about but it was never something that I expected I would do. It seems funny to look back at that now as it is no longer something that feels forbidden although it does still retain an element of the naughty.  I […]

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Blame it on the boots

Blame it on the Boots

I LOVE boots. My friend Emily will joke when I say that I don’t know what to wear. “What about boots?” she will ask. And it is true, I am more often than not in boots, whether they are long or short or high or low, boots are my preferred […]

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Submissive Power

So we were lying there this Sunday morning enjoying a slow start to the day. We had woken up at the usual time and were snuggled up with ipads, catching up on social media. There was no rush so we enjoyed the time that we had but after a while […]

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Roleplay

We recently had a chat at The SafeworD/s Club about Roleplay. In my preamble to the topic I described roleplay as the marmite of BDSM as people either seem to love or to hate it. It turned out that most of us who attended the chat were fans, although we’d […]

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Electro-play

The theme for HisLordship’s advent gift to me on the 17th, was ‘Christmas Lights’. He bought an electro-play kit a little while ago and we had never had the chance to use it. His idea was to ‘light me up’ for Christmas. I was pretty excited at the thought of this, […]

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A little reading goes a long way

Last night we had set some time aside for each other as we had missed out for one reason or another. I guess that we both must have needed it because despite the stuff of life working to derail us with its usual tricks, we managed to get back to […]

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Are we kinky?

Are we still kinky?

This follows on from my post, Kinky, and actually ties in to my recent post, Ahhhhhh!. I said in my kinky post that sometimes I felt that I wasn’t really kinky anymore and that I wasn’t sure how important that part was to me. Although I wrote that post back in November […]

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A Fucking Machine

HisLordship has made a fucking machine.  It was revealed on Saturday and although the unveiling did not really take the form of the kind of hot, steamy scene that he had envisaged (the changing movements of teenagers foiled us again) we did get a chance to give it a quick […]

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Hand Spanking

I have written about spanking before as it is something that I enjoy and is a big part of our dynamic so thought that I would try to put another post together.  Hand spanking is my favourite type of impact play and I love nothing more than being bared over […]

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Living the Happily Ever After

Sometimes when you do a thing a lot, you can lose sight of the wonder of it. It can be easy, I think, to let things become usual or normal or everyday. Although I hate to say it I think this is also true of ttwd. This thing that we […]

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The Howler

I posted about The Howler in my post Pleasure from Pain. Looking back I see that was written on the 24th May which seems quite some time ago now. We had a quick try of The Howler once it had been assembled, you may remember that the rubber was a gift […]

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Pleasure from Pain

Although I have always had a high pain threshold I am not really a masochist in the physical sense, although I do get pleasure from pain.. I think that I have a good level but when you play in the safety of your own home, without an audience, you really […]

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Consensual Non-Consent

This is a post for a number of reasons.  It is partly a follow on from my last post on Consent and D/s which became too long to add anything else. It is also partly in response to last weekend when we were away together and HisLordship requested the presence of […]

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consent and D/s

Consent and D/s

Consent is a serious topic and it is a complicated and contentious area in BDSM. For us consent is always present unless a safe word is used, but in reality Sir would never ask me to do something that I didn’t want to. The level of trust we have is […]

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