I got lost again. Not literally but virtually. We were hit quite badly by the recent storms and lost power and internet. Usually I do most of my writing at the weekend so this threw me off. When we did get back in our virtual world I was then behind […]
Let’s start with some common misconceptions about a D/s relationship 1. D/s is not abuse And those who take part in it are not always victims of abuse looking for a way to manage it. While public opinion would have you believe that D/s relationships are abusive, this is not […]
I know it seems odd to write a post about why nipple play isn’t for me. I am usually positive about most types of play but really nipple play just doesn’t do it for me these days. I could say that this was always the case. And actually going back […]
The advent task today over at The SafeworD/s Club is ‘6 things’ so I decided to write about 6 things that I love about submission. Number 1 : Intensity The first thing I love about submission is the intensity. I have made no secret of the fact that, prior to […]
As a family we have never done Elf on the Shelf and I only really heard about it the last five years or so, and, like Black Friday, appears to be another of those things which we have adopted from the US. The idea behind it seems to be an […]
Number 15 on the calendar for us was ‘The fist of winter’. I have written about fisting before, and one post that I wrote quite recently was The hows and whys of fisting where I explain more of the nitty gritty to fisting. It also has links to some other posts […]
Christmas Stockings is part of our Festive Photo Shoot and is day 12 So any of you who are following our Advent Calendar this year will have noticed a bit of a hiatus on the posts. Basically things caught up with us and we didn’t catch up with the things […]
Well that is the period of advent at a close and, therefore, the end of ‘gifts’ that we were giving each other as part of our D/s Advent Calendar for 2018. I have posted about some of these activities and others I have left private. In order to be transparent, […]
2 – Pine Needle Play Pine Needles of different variety will be needed for this festive scene! Plenty of sharp medical grade needles will be employed to give missy some Ho Ho Ho of her own! I feel you pinch my skin and I wait. I feel vulnerable and weak. […]
HisLordship has kicked off our D/s Advent Calendar for this year and the detail for the first day is below: 1 – A Glass of Christmas Cheer A Glass of Christmas can come in many forms and for us at the beginning of the festive month a nice warm glass […]
I mentioned in my SoSS post that I wanted to do something to mark advent for 2018 but I wasn’t sure what. The idea sprang up originally as our circumstances had changed and so 2016 was going to bring less in the way of material gifts for Christmas. I was also aware […]
Firstly I would like to wish everyone the very best for the season. Secondly I would like to apologise for my absence. I think that my last post was 12 days ago: unheard of for me. A huge part of this has been to do with the demands of one […]
This is my number 14. As Sir is travelling home today, I wanted him to have something to read. I have long since promised to write out one of my fantasies for him. This is one we have talked about at the later stage so I thought that I would […]
I worry that after my meltdown the other day, HisLordship has tried to make his tasks easy on me. For the 11th I received a link to some piano music and Sir wanted me to play it and think about the time we have spent together in Italy. He wanted […]
I think it is safe to say that yesterday I had a bit of a crash. It had been building I suppose and due to a combination of factors, it all just fell apart. It wasn’t that I didn’t see it coming but because HisLordship is away, there wasn’t the […]
My instruction for today: On the 7th day your Dom gave to you: on a very busy day for Missy, the gift of time. When you go to bed tonight I want you to lay in bed naked and lightly touch yourself, as you do. I want you to take […]
Number 6 for our advent calendar was Missing You. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfa9yxCpWoA I love this song and sent it to HisLordship this morning to let him know how I am feeling being apart from him. I like Snow Patrol anyway and have listened to them since I bought their first album back […]
I was pretty excited when I received details of the gift for today it was a Christmas list. On the 5th day of our advent – Santa always needs a list to help the elves. I would like you to make a list of the sexual things your Dom could […]
Sir’s instructions for the 3rd were to do with my underwear and they were sent by message that morning: Santa’s Sack of Goodies (Part 1). Before your bedtime today I want you to review all of your underwear. On the bed I want you to arrange the top 5 sets […]
This morning HisLordship left to work overseas again and he won’t be back until the 15th December. We have had a bit of a run of him working away and have tried to do things to keep the close connection we have between us. It has been a challenge though […]