In BDSM, aftercare can be the secret to things being lasting and retaining that sense of magic you share with your play partner. It allows you to feel safe, build trust, and create a strong connection through the shared experience. Although it is the play rather than the aftercare which […]
E is for Endorphins So I learnt all about endorphins today, and I also learnt what it was that happened to me during the cane session the other day. An endorphin high – obvious now I know. I did wonder why the pain seemed to fade and go from being […]
I wrote this post for The SafeworD/s Club because our theme this week was warming up and cooling down so I wanted to focus on how this works within a D/s play relationship. These thoughts are based on my own experience so should be taken as suggestions only, as different […]
A hotel scene often lasts longer than our regular scenes. Scenes at home either start late evening, or are fitted in during a couple of hours when we find ourselves alone; even when we have had longer than this, there will be distractions at home that just aren’t there when […]
A to Z Challenge – A I decided to go with the rule of three as that seemed to give enough to say in each post without overdoing it (some letters are WAY harder than others!) The letter A is a good one to start with I feel as it […]
This post is written in response to a comment on my last post Forced Orgasms. Thank you for the feedback lurvspanking. In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given. This is because we trust each other and communicate fully with one another. We have discussed limits, both […]