“It’s a new dawn, It’s a new day, It’s a new life for me, And I’m feeling good”
A celebration with posts on health, sexuality and style
2020 marks the year of a world-wide pandemic and for many of us it might be the most single important world event of our lives. 2020 was also the year that I turned 50 and that has felt pretty significant too.
I began my journey as a married submissive in 2012 and started to blog about it in 2016. Since then, Submissy has grown with me, whilst also keeping its focus on sharing the details of my life and my lifestyle with those who choose to read.
While I still want to write about D/s, I also want to blog about other things related to my life and my lifestyle. Feeling good about yourself and being comfortable in your own skin is so important and these posts are about my quest to do just that: to feel good, to feel sexy and to make the most of being me.
It’s a new dawn, it’s a new day, it’s a new life for me, and I’m feeling good.

Recent Posts … what's new in Feeling Good
In case you missed it … some posts from the past
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Be daring and find ways to surrender
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And now … for something sexier
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Submissive Photo Challenge – Exposed
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Bondara Flirt Wet Look and Mesh Cami ~ Review
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Nudity and freedom
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Seeing Through Things
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Feeling Sexy – Enclothed Cognition
I have wanted to write about clothes and how they make me feel for a…




Erotic photography and where it fits
This post is about erotic photography and where it fits within our D/s dynamic. I…




Picture Perfect – avoiding the negatives
My issues with my body mean that things are never going to be picture perfect…




Burlesque Baby – Fun Theme Photo Meme
I wanted to post this picture as part of a new meme which is being…




If you’ve got it, flaunt it.
I am not very good at flaunting myself. I tend not to have the confidence…




White Shirt
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Reading, sexuality and submission
Reading can spur a lot of erotic emotions, thoughts, and actions. Write about the books,…




Femininity and feeling feminine
I have been thinking a little more about what I wrote in my previous post…