These posts and pictures are about throwing caution to the wind (or in my case the window!) They are about my journey to push past some of the things I resist and just go for it and put it out there. Contains erotic photography and is focussed on body positivity
He paints me in place,Pulls my mind into his space,Draws me out … and in. That moment, when I am waiting, something special happens. It may look like nothing, but, it is the beginning. I am not sure that my effort at a haiku puts it across as I feel […]
“Why?” she giggled, nervously. “Because I want to,” he replied. “And because I have been watching you all night and my fingers are literally tingling to touch you. Also, I think that you need it,” he said, as if it were the most normal thing in the world to have […]
I wanted to post this picture as part of a new meme which is being hosted by my good friend Sweetgirl. I know that she has worked really hard on this project and has been absolutely thrilled with the participation so far. So the idea behind the Fun Theme Photo […]
It is early on in our relationship and HL has told me that I have a date for a spank. We have the house to ourselves so he wants to make the most of it. He has gone upstairs to our bedroom and told me to wait 5 minutes before […]
I am funny about messing with time. There are things I would change, of course, if I had my time over, but I wouldn’t go back given the choice as I worry that it would affect other things. I think that if you mess with what is or what could […]
I like lines and shapes. Between them they seem to provide order and pattern and promise. They tell me that I can stick between them, or push past them. I can remain with what I know, or venture further, farther into things previously unknown. Sometimes we realise that conforming to […]
We never really do anything for Valentine’s Day. One reason is that it is so close to my Birthday and we have usually celebrated that in some way, and the other is that I am not really a big fan of commercialised days and ways to mark how I feel. […]
Fifty has always sounded quite old to me so the fact that it is actually here feels a little odd. I have thought for a while about the fact that I wanted to celebrate it though, because really, I think that it conjured up a different image in my head […]
For me complete submission is not about obeying rules without question, or about providing a service, or about having someone support me to push at boundaries that I have identified as being movable. It is about going beyond that, to a place where none of that matters anymore; it is […]
I have an objectification kink. I always feel a bit embarrassed about that because it seems wrong to want such a thing, but then again I guess a lot kink seems a little wrong, in a good way of course. I don’t enjoy just any objectification though so it has […]
I get ready as usual in the clothes that we have agreed I will wear. I see that on the counter, he has set out my play collar and cuffs. It is not unusual to see them because often a hotel stay will include some heavier play and I know […]
HisLordship and I have managed to sneak away for a night to a nice hotel, with a nice room, and this rather cool bath. It feels like ages since we had some fun like this together and although the bath and the room are cool, I am hoping that everything […]
According to the psychologist Carl Jung, the Shadow Self is made up of the aspects of our personality that we choose to reject and repress. Most of us never know our shadow as those elements remain in our sub-conscience and only manifest themselves through what he terms as projection, where […]
This is one of the images that we took for the letter H prompt earlier at the beginning of December. I was going for hourglass but when I saw it, it looked far less hourglass than it had looked, or indeed felt, at the time. I decided to go with […]
As a family we have never done Elf on the Shelf and I only really heard about it the last five years or so, and, like Black Friday, appears to be another of those things which we have adopted from the US. The idea behind it seems to be an […]
Christmas Stockings is part of our Festive Photo Shoot and is day 12 So any of you who are following our Advent Calendar this year will have noticed a bit of a hiatus on the posts. Basically things caught up with us and we didn’t catch up with the things […]
One book that I love is ‘The Great Gatsby’. I fell in love with it when I was 17 and I have remained true, dipping into it over the years, watching the various film adaptations, and once, even teaching it. The copy here is the original that I bought back […]
The prompt for Sinful Sunday this week is the letter H. I hummed and hawed (very on prompt) over which H to submit: Handcuffs, hood, headband? Or something more active? Hand job, honour bondage or humiliation. What about a hog -tie? In the end I broke with habit and settled […]
There is something about watching from a window. It feels like time well spent on the observations made. Meaningless in themselves, they require nothing from me in terms of response and yet, each picture evokes a response regardless. What looks like a simple daydream from the outside, is actually the […]
HL and I have attended Eroticon for the past two years. In short, we have been inspired, motivated and enthused by what we learned there. We have also felt welcomed, included and accepted by a whole community of people who are altruistic, encouraging and who we are excited to be […]