submissy
This category contains the posts from all of the individual projects I have created. For example, D/s advent calendar, fiction writing, creative non-fiction and photography. It also contains some of the challenges such as blogging A to Z, posts for Tell Me About… and reviews of sex toys and products.
Sex toys is the current topic for Tell Me About and surprisingly I have never really written about them before. We have LOADS of toys and so, although I am linking to Wicked Wednesday’s peep show prompt, this is more of a peep at a virtual show and tell than […]
He positioned her on a chair and told her not to move. She was very self-conscious to begin with. The sheer blouse covering her left little to the imagination, but once his friends were assembled and began their evening, things changed. They laughed and chatted in small groups, so hardly […]
Talking about masturbation. Generally we don’t, do we? I mean here in these sorts of circles we do, But out there? Not so much. And I wonder why that is. I suppose like all things sexual, we are conditioned to feel it is something which should be kept private. It […]
He has watched her for days now, his study. The details of every move and mannerism, the intonation of her voice, the cadence of her laughter. He know her as his. He has traced the lines of her body with the fingertip of his mind’s eye, the curve of her […]
A key part of a D/s relationship is about meeting the needs of the other. Communication has to figure in this because unless you are aware of what the needs of the other person are, you are not going to be able to meet them. For this reason, D/s requires […]
“Shall I dance for you Sir?” she said, feeling playful “Dance for me? What did you have in mind, missy?” “I was thinking perhaps something burlesquey? I know you like that, Sir.” “I do Missy. I like you dancing for me very much.” He paused then for so long that […]
What happens when life gets in the way? Well from experience it impacts your power exchange and your D/s relationship. Clearly I write from the viewpoint of a full time lifestyle dynamic but I think that whatever set up you have, significant life events will have an impact. Obviously sometimes […]
What is libido? When we talk about our libido and about it being low, if feels like a real negative. The implication is that something is broken: I am no longer working as I should be. For the most part we have come to see libido as being simply about […]
Being positioned in front of the mirror is clearly part of the plan. I realise quickly how clever he has been. I can see myself and that is difficult. More than that I can see him and I can see what he is doing. The partial eye of the glass […]
April was only half focussed as she opened the letter. She had been home a while and hadn’t rushed to read the post. It was usually something she wasn’t much interested in anyway and there was really very little to indicate that the envelope would contain probably the most unusual […]
She had agreed to the rules, so why she had then made the choice not to follow them she didn’t know. She had a reason of course, she always did, but that was not the way it worked. Reasons after the event were too late. It came down to the […]
This post is really just a bit of fun. The prompt for Wicked Wednesday this time is Two Truths and a lie. I have written out three scenarios below. Two have happened, truths, and one has yet to happen so is a lie. I hope you enjoy them as much […]
I know I am kinky in vanilla terms but because we have been exploring kink for so long, much of what we do feels normal to me now. I wondered for a while if I was even kinky anymore, whilst at the same time knowing that kinky is something that […]
Continuing with my Saturday shorts theme, I have another snapshot put to words. I am wondering if I should make this a thing as I am really quite enjoying it. They had been taking pictures for a while. She was nervous to begin with as she didn’t know Mackay very […]
She knew that he was watching her squirm internally. He had told her not to move and she was trying really hard. She was so conscious of the plug inside her and couldn’t help tensing her muscles around it, as if to remind herself. She felt the heat on her […]
The foundations of our D/s relationship are the same as would exist for any good relationship: Honesty, Trust, Respect and Open Communication. Because we are a couple, I am happy to say that there is also love. A lot of love. In fact, love is at the heart of everything […]
I have always liked talking about sex. In fact, I love talking about sex. One of the things I enjoy about this space is that talking about sex is something I can do and, even better, I can talk about it to other people who are interested in the same […]
He has her in the window again. Does he do it for me, or for him?I think they know I watch. I think I am part of what they do. She has been there some time. My pot of coffee is gone and I should get on with the day. I am […]
I said I wasn’t going to do an on prompt piece for Wicked Wednesday because I am not a creative writer and it doesn’t fit on my blog, so I wrote this instead. But then I had a feeling I wanted to give it a go despite the fact it […]
What we find in a soulmate is not something wild to tame but something wild to run with. Robert Brault She was wild. She hid it under layers of convention, but it was there in her eyes. It flickered at him as she spoke. When he looked more deeply she […]