Pleasure, Pain and Power

A to Z Challenge – P Although two separate things, for me PLEASURE and PAIN sort of come together as that is how I like them. I have written about how that works in Pleasure from Pain but I have also written before about the pleasure that comes from being submissive which […]

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Unexpected

Wicked Wednesday Prompt #307: What would YOU do with a million dollars? It was easy really as it had never felt like their money in the first place. They had bought the estate with a view to making more of it and that had certainly happened. It had been quiet at […]

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Orgasms, Oral and Openness

A to Z Challenge – O An obvious for the letter O is ORGASMS and I have already written a series of posts about different types of orgasms. I am also taking part in the 30 day orgasm challenge this month so that has left me writing quite a bit […]

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Nudity, Need and Nipple Play

A to Z Challenge – N My first N is NUDITY. Nudity is something that HisLordship loves and wants more of. I struggled with it initially but have made leaps and bounds of late. When I did my submissive advent calendar for him, I included naked piano playing and a […]

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Sun and Snow

In an effort to meet my daily step target (9000 and counting), HisLordship and I went for a walk this afternoon. I have to say that I was a little surprised and lot unsure when he suddenly told me to remove my clothes for a picture, adding that it was […]

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Mindset, Maintenance and Middles

A to Z Challenge – M For the letter M I thought I would start with MINDSET. For me, adopting a submissive mindset has been the biggest reward and also the biggest challenge. It has meant that I have had to not only change how I behave, but also how […]

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Limits, Labels and Life

A to Z Challenge – L For the letter L I wanted to start with LIMITS. I think that it is important when starting out that you focus on Setting Limits especially for play. If you are like us and already in a loving relationship with your partner you will likely know […]

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Kink, Kids and Kneeling

A to Z Challenge – K An obvious for K would have to be KINK. Being Kinky is something I wrote about at the very beginning of my blog, but as time has moved on and we have explored different types of play more and more, I began to feel like what […]

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30 Day Orgasm Fun – First 10

So I thought I would give an orgasm update on how things have been going for me with the 30 Day Orgasm Fun. As I said in First Thoughts, I had a few reasons for wanting to take part, and a few considerations about what it might mean. I can’t […]

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Travels with You

I asked that you travel this journey with me and that was just the beginning. In accepting, you lead me to a better understanding of myself through your patient unravelling of years of the stuff that life had built up, not just for me but for us both. Together we […]

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Journey, Juxtaposition and Journaling

A to Z Challenge – J I think that really, anyone who follows my blog will know that it is about my JOURNEY. This whole experience has been one which has changed my perception quite significantly. It is a journey of learning, of growth, of development and more importantly it […]

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Intensity, Intimacy and Impact

A to Z Challenge – I I have often said that being in a D/s relationship has allowed me to have the INTIMACY and the INTENSITY that I always wanted but never thought I would find. I always felt too much for someone before and, although they seemed to want […]

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Head, Humiliation and Happy Ever Afters

A to Z Challenge – H They do say that the most important sex organ is the brain and for me that is definitely true. What goes on in my HEAD is a recurring theme in many of the posts written here on my blog, although I have chosen to link It’s […]

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The 08.52 from Glasgow Central

As it was the school holidays this week we managed to get away for a couple of nights with a couple of the kids. Although it wasn’t a romantic break it was nice to have a change of scene all the same; we had fun with the kids and were […]

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Missy’s SoSS #2

Welcome to missy’s SoSS #2 The first article I would like to share is Living with Chronic Lyme Disease by the fabulous May More. In this post May explains that her “man is an author, a rider, a musician. He has worn the hat of a journalist, a social worker and a builder. […]

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Growth, Giving and Gentlemen

A to Z Challenge – G Today is the letter G and my first topic is GROWTH. For me, a huge part of this journey has been about personal growth. D/s has given me the secure base with which to try things that I never would have before. It has […]

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Fantasies, Fairytales and Fisting

A to Z Challenge – F First choice for my Fs are FANTASIES. Being in this type of relationship has given us the communication and the trust to enable us to explore parts of ourselves that I don’t think we would necessarily have done before. Part of this has meant […]

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Expectations, Exposure and Endorphins

A to Z Challenge – E E was a little bit harder and I didn’t have to whittle my selection of things that I wanted to write about down as much. I don’t think that EXPECTATIONS are a D/s related thing as such. More they area a relationship related thing but […]

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Dominance, Drop and and Discipline

A to Z Challenge – D Three more great topics for today. DOMINANCE. For me, without that there would be no submission, at least in the form that it exists now. HisLordship is not a Dominant, he is my Dominant and I am not a submissive, I am his submissive and […]

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Control, Communication and Consent

A to Z Challenge – C It seems that C is a huge letter for me and I have loads to say on the topics I have chosen. Control plays such a large part in a Dominant submissive relationship and it is also a big deal for me as a […]

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