D/s Advent Calendar 2019. Well it is that time again and here we are swapping gift and getting in the festive spirit. This year there are all things that we will do together, be it self-care of kink.
Join me each day to discover what dominant and submissive festive treats HL and I have been getting up to.
As a family we have never done Elf on the Shelf and I only really heard about it the last five years or so, and, like Black Friday, appears to be another of those things which we have adopted from the US. The idea behind it seems to be an […]
Number 15 on the calendar for us was ‘The fist of winter’. I have written about fisting before, and one post that I wrote quite recently was The hows and whys of fisting where I explain more of the nitty gritty to fisting. It also has links to some other posts […]
Number 14 of our advent calendar was ‘Sexy sleigh ride home – driver is missy in underwear.’ What could possible go wrong? HL was off on a night out in town and the plan was for me to collect him and drive him home in only my underwear. Sounded simple […]
Sensational Sunday for missy was actually sensational Friday. I explained that things sort of threw us off in my Christmas Stockings post but that we are working through our gifts regardless of falling behind. We may still be doing them in January but to me, that will only be a […]
Christmas Stockings is part of our Festive Photo Shoot and is day 12 So any of you who are following our Advent Calendar this year will have noticed a bit of a hiatus on the posts. Basically things caught up with us and we didn’t catch up with the things […]
“Naughty or nice?” he said, indicating two piles of toys laid out on the dresser as she came into the bedroom. She looked from one to the other and froze. He had done this once before, put on that voice and said those things and, to be honest, she just […]
So number 7 in our advent calendar is cock worship. This seems timely as I read a post earlier by Purple Sole on the same topic. In his post, PS asks the question, what is the difference between a blow job and cock worship. Now that is the post I […]
The number 6 spot on our advent calendar this year was taken by electric play: You light me up – with electric – wired and ready to rock your world. I bought an ElectraStim kit last year for HL as part of our Kinky Christmas and we absolutely love it. […]
Well the big number 5 was entitled ‘The Weather Inside is Frightful’. and it was TV and a fondle under a blanket. Actually nothing could have been further from what I wanted. We snuggled up and after the dog stopped trying to come between us by staring at the movement […]
Well, number 4 was a candy caning – ‘apparently stripes aren’t just for the cane; they give them too’. I had been looking forward to this one. We used to have a regular cane session on a Wednesday night but for one reason or another, it seems to have slipped […]
Number 3 in this year’s calendar was a carry over from last year: ‘A glass of Christmas cheer.’ The idea behind this was some play with our glass icicle dildo (warmed up luckily!) I wondered whether to post about this because really, it didn’t work out so well but I […]
Number two in our advent calendar was ‘Gloves because Baby It’s Cold Outside.’ I was pretty surprised with this one and it wasn’t really what I had expected. This can be a good thing and it was. The weather has turned pretty cold up here and I couldn’t seem to […]
So the first day of our calendar was ‘Christmas Bake Off’. In reality this was more of a bake up than a bake off but it was about me doing something nice for HL. Not very sexy I know but I think we have found over time that actually the […]
It is that time again. Well actually it is four days into that time again but although my post is late, my submissive slant on advent is underway. Actually we weren’t sure we would do anything to mark advent this year. I think we swayed because we have done it […]