Fantasies, Fairytales and Fisting

A to Z Challenge – F First choice for my Fs are FANTASIES. Being in this type of relationship has given us the communication and the trust to enable us to explore parts of ourselves that I don’t think we would necessarily have done before. Part of this has meant […]

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Expectations, Exposure and Endorphins

A to Z Challenge – E E was a little bit harder and I didn’t have to whittle my selection of things that I wanted to write about down as much. I don’t think that EXPECTATIONS are a D/s related thing as such. More they area a relationship related thing but […]

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Dominance, Drop and and Discipline

A to Z Challenge – D Three more great topics for today. DOMINANCE. For me, without that there would be no submission, at least in the form that it exists now. HisLordship is not a Dominant, he is my Dominant and I am not a submissive, I am his submissive and […]

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Control, Communication and Consent

A to Z Challenge – C It seems that C is a huge letter for me and I have loads to say on the topics I have chosen. Control plays such a large part in a Dominant submissive relationship and it is also a big deal for me as a […]

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Body Image, Beauty and Balance

A to Z Challenge – B B is another letter with lots to write about and one of the most important for me at the moment is BODY IMAGE. I have huge body image issues which I am trying hard to overcome. I don’t really know when this started. I […]

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Challenges

April here we come! As is often the case, I like to set myself a challenge now and then and the start of the holidays is always a good time for me as I usually have more time than during the term and so sign myself up to take on […]

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