Period Sex

The Truth about Period Sex

Period sex is one of things that still isn’t that acceptable to a lot of people. I would say that we are a pretty open couple, and HL would say that he is ok with period sex, but in reality, we rarely do it. I have brought it up for […]

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Electric sex - ElectraStim

Electric Sex – charged up and ready to go

Why we decided to try electric sex The topic for Tell Me About… this time is Electroplay. This is something I have written about quite a bit and, if you are interested, I have linked the posts at the bottom. Suffice to say, we enjoy electroplay. We have an ElectraStim […]

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Back on track

Back on track and back to basics

Getting back on track Sometimes you lose each other. It can be hard when you are used to the closeness to work out what to do about it and how to get things back on track. We have been talking a lot lately about what to do and how to […]

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Standing Still

Standing Still

I am standing still, waiting for him. He is watching me but he hasn’t made a move.  My body is sore, tense in its pose, my muscles aching for release.  The awareness of my physical self and my inability to allow it comfort challenges my mind and, it too, slips […]

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Not tonight dear, I've got a headache

Not tonight dear, I’ve got a headache

I know that the “Not tonight dear, I’ve got a headache,” thing is just a joke really and certainly for me, saying no to HL isn’t part of our deal. That said, my headaches do get in the way quite a bit. I have written before about my hormonal migraines […]

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Cervical Screening

Why we need to talk about Cervical Screening

Cervical Screening Awareness Week – 14 – 20 June 2021 This week is cervical screening awareness week. Despite invites for women and people with a cervix to attend cervical screening appointments via their GP surgery, there are still some who are not taking up this offer. According to leading cervical […]

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sex toys

Sex Toys ~ How we use them and the ones we love

Sex toys is the current topic for Tell Me About and surprisingly I have never really written about them before. We have LOADS of toys and so, although I am linking to Wicked Wednesday’s peep show prompt, this is more of a peep at a virtual show and tell than […]

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Don't Move

Don’t move

He positioned her on a chair and told her not to move. She was very self-conscious to begin with. The sheer blouse covering her left little to the imagination, but once his friends were assembled and began their evening, things changed. They laughed and chatted in small groups, so hardly […]

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talking about masturbation

Talking about masturbation

Talking about masturbation. Generally we don’t, do we? I mean here in these sorts of circles we do, But out there? Not so much. And I wonder why that is. I suppose like all things sexual, we are conditioned to feel it is something which should be kept private. It […]

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His Study ~ A short trip into the past

He has watched her for days now, his study.  The details of every move and mannerism, the intonation of her voice, the cadence of her laughter. He know her as his.  He has traced the lines of her body with the fingertip of his mind’s eye, the curve of her […]

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Dance for you

Shall I dance for you?

“Shall I dance for you Sir?” she said, feeling playful  “Dance for me? What did you have in mind, missy?” “I was thinking perhaps something burlesquey? I know you like that, Sir.” “I do Missy. I like you dancing for me very much.” He paused then for so long that […]

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life gets in the way

What happens when life gets in the way

What happens when life gets in the way? Well from experience it impacts your power exchange and your D/s relationship. Clearly I write from the viewpoint of a full time lifestyle dynamic but I think that whatever set up you have, significant life events will have an impact. Obviously sometimes […]

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In front of the mirror

In front of the mirror

Being positioned in front of the mirror is clearly part of the plan. I realise quickly how clever he has been. I can see myself and that is difficult. More than that I can see him and I can see what he is doing. The partial eye of the glass […]

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April fool

No April Fool ~ return to training

April was only half focussed as she opened the letter. She had been home a while and hadn’t rushed to read the post. It was usually something she wasn’t much interested in anyway and there was really very little to indicate that the envelope would contain probably the most unusual […]

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A Matter of Choice

Saturday Shorts ~ a matter of choice

She had agreed to the rules, so why she had then made the choice not to follow them she didn’t know. She had a reason of course, she always did, but that was not the way it worked. Reasons after the event were too late. It came down to the […]

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Two Truths and a Lie

Two Truths and a Lie

This post is really just a bit of fun. The prompt for Wicked Wednesday this time is Two Truths and a lie. I have written out three scenarios below. Two have happened, truths, and one has yet to happen so is a lie. I hope you enjoy them as much […]

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being exposed is my kink

Being Exposed is my Kink

I know I am kinky in vanilla terms but because we have been exploring kink for so long, much of what we do feels normal to me now. I wondered for a while if I was even kinky anymore, whilst at the same time knowing that kinky is something that […]

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