sweet spot

Oh That Sweet Sweet Spot

When we first started spanking we didn’t know much about the sweet spot.  This is a term used to describe the part of the lower bum just above where it meets the top of the thighs. It is called the sweet spot as it feels especially good when spanked, due […]

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Without Words

The room was dark and had the faint smell of almond oil. She was naked. She knelt as he had instructed.  She started slightly as the music filled the room. She waited patiently and tried to focus.  Her legs began to ache. They became hot and began almost to burn, […]

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four fingers and beyond - fisting

Four Fingers and Beyond

I was asked by a friend the other day what I got out of fisting and anal sex.  She also wondered what it was that my Sir got from it.  She and her Dom had set these as limits I think, but were interested in what there might be to […]

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tap of the cane

The Tap of HisLordship’s Cane

I am lying on my front.  My arms are spread above me and my legs are spread apart.  I must not move and so I lie still, bound by his will.  My body is pressed into the sheets and my sensitivity to the touch of the cotton is a telltale […]

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you had me at spanking

Spanking Uncovered

Spanking.  What is it about this that gets me running to my room to slip off my knickers, bend over and present myself?  I’m sure that my fellow spankthusiasts out there know exactly what I mean. But somehow, at some point, I moved from being someone who enjoyed the odd […]

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Oral Sex - when giving meets receiving

Oral Sex: When Giving Meets Receiving

I guess that really, giving meets receiving is the crux of a power exchange, certainly one with a D/s slant. Making your partner happy and meeting their needs and desires is both fulfilling and consuming in equal measure. It becomes a powerful part of who you are and who you […]

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Being Kinky

Being Kinky

I think that being kinky is something that you are and not something you become, although the realisation that not everyone feels as you do and wants to do the things that you do can mean that you don’t always get to explore as you might.  I remember even as […]

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the magic

The Magic

I am standing in the room, waiting as instructed. My body is straight with a slight curve in the small of my back which forces my bum and my chest out. My eyes are down and my legs are apart. My hands are behind my back and I am open […]

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