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Sensory Scene

I am pretty excited as I had not expected a scene today but Sir told me an hour ago that he wanted me to be ready. Having prepared myself, I enter the room.  I don’t know at this point that it will be a sensory scene. He holds me for […]

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Schoolgirl Scene

There can be a variety of ways to start a schoolgirl scene but on this occasion I am simply instructed to have a bath, prepare myself, and then get changed into the clothes that he will leave outside the bathroom. I love this part of a scene, getting ready; it […]

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DIY DOM

Sir is good with his hands. This extends not only to how he deals with me, but also far beyond, into the realm of DIY.  It is great to be able to live with someone who can turn their hand to fixing most of the things that go wrong around […]

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Anal Play

Anal sex is one of those things that, once considered taboo, now seems much more mainstream. There has certainly been an increase in the numbers of heterosexual couples who admit to having anal sex and a survey published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2010 found that one in […]

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Sensory Deprivation

Sensory play is a huge part of any sexual activity. From touch, to sight, to taste, to smell, it all works to heighten the experience; but within BDSM sensory deprivation can play an even bigger role.  When you lose one sense the others immediately become enhanced, meaning that the experience […]

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The Reality of my Fantasy 

The reality of my fantasy is hard to explain. HisLordship commented in his recent post that behind my “‘come fuck me eyes’ lurks a mind probably full of dreams, like clouds of purple and red smoke whirling around forming new erotic shapes.” This reminded me of the poem pictured here which […]

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Humiliation

I have wanted to write about humiliation for a while; erotic humiliation that is.  I haven’t for a couple of reasons.  The first is ironic.  I am embarrassed that I am into it.  The second is that what we find a turn on is very personal and very individual and […]

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Kinky

HL and I were chatting this evening about our direction and where we wanted our D/s to go. As often happens we ended up in quite an interesting discussion where we were talking about things we had experienced and the directions some of the other people we know seemed to […]

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The Doxy

I mentioned in my last post that we went to sexpo last year and that when we were there we bought ourselves a brilliant new wand. This has to be the single best toy that we have bought so far and although it was pretty pricey, it was worth every penny. […]

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Story of the O – #6 Blended Orgasms

I think that this is probably the last of the orgasm posts for me; unless of course there is a type of climax I still have yet to discover, which could well be true based on what the past two years have shown me. To me, a blended orgasm is […]

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Evening 'Completus'

I do realise that completus is a made up word, but this is the continuation of my last post Evening Interruptus.  Having had our plans for Wednesday evening’s play foiled, Sir had postponed things until Friday when we would, hopefully, be alone again.  Friday was a little more tricky than Wednesday […]

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3D Reading

So, Sir introduced something new last night – 3D reading! He explained to me that this would mean that he would read my post while I served him using the topic related to the content of my writing.  He said that I was to do this last night for him […]

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Story of the O – #5 Spanking (impact) Orgasms

I have already posted a couple of times about spanking and the role it has in our dynamic (Spanking Uncovered and Oh That Sweet Sweet Spot).  In the second of these posts I have referred to the sweet spot and the fact that the repeated attention to that area can get me […]

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Story of the O – #4 Anal Orgasms

An anal orgasm was not something I was really prepared for and it came as a bit of a surprise. A pretty amazing surprise but a surprise nonetheless. We had been engaging in anal play for a while when it first happened. I think I said before that I had […]

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Saturday Morning – sans kids

So after breakfast on Saturday morning, it transpired we had no kids around. Sir told me to go and stand at the foot of the stairs.  He then told me to remove my clothes and to stand facing him.  He was still in the kitchen.  He said that he wanted […]

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Nipple Play

I was never really much into nipple play.  In fact, when I met HL, I told him not to bother wasting time with my nipples as touching them didn’t do anything for me.  OMG how wrong I was!  I am not exactly sure what he did but he has transformed […]

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Story of the O – #3 Squirting Orgasms

I first learnt about squirting orgasms when I met Sir, but that was before he was Sir and he was just my boyfriend.  (If you can have a ‘boyfriend’ when you are in your late 30s that is.)  Maybe I was a bit too old to be learning new tricks, […]

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Consent, Safety and Aftercare

This post is written in response to a comment on my last post Forced Orgasms. Thank you for the feedback lurvspanking. In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given.  This is because we trust each other and communicate fully with one another.  We have discussed limits, both […]

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Story of the O – #2 Forced Orgasms

I mentioned in Story of the O – #1 that I experienced different types of orgasms from different types of play.  Forced orgasms were something that I had not experienced prior to D/s. A forced orgasm will often involve restraint although that wouldn’t need to be a requirement.  You would […]

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Story of the O – #1 Orgasms

This is the first part of a group of multiple posts on orgasms, including: Forced Orgasms, Squirting Orgasms, Anal Orgasms, Spanking (impact) Orgasms and Blended Orgasms. I have always considered myself fortunate in that I am able to orgasm quite easily.  I was aware that statistically I was one of the […]

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