Sacrilege - the perversion of ceremony

Sacrilege – the perversion of ceremony

Content Warning – as the title suggests, this post talks about sacrilege. If this is a kink which you find offensive then you may wish to read no further. The Thrill of the Taboo One of the things that is attractive about sacrilege is the thrill of taboo. Whether you […]

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the hows and whys of fisting

The hows and whys of fisting

I have written about what we get out of fisting before and also about why sometimes it meets a need that nothing else can, but I don’t think I have ever got down to the nitty gritty of fisting itself. So that is what I plan to do in this […]

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masturbation sunday

Masturbation Sunday

Recently things have been crazy full on.  I have new routine, following my re-acquisition of the home and kitchen, when HL went back to work full time. I feel much happier and more connected to be honest, but I am also much busier. I feel a little bit like a […]

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electro-play

Electro-play – Master’s Touch

HisLordship has said that we will be doing electro-play. I am lying on the bed, face down and he is securing the pads of the ElectraStim, one to each bum cheek.  We have found that this way works best for us and is where I can really enjoy the sensation […]

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Imagine

Everything you can imagine is real

“Everything you can imagine is real” Pablo Picasso She imagined herself on holiday. Somewhere quiet where nobody knew them. She had thought of that when she bought the dress. I wasn’t fancy of course, that would be too obvious; it was enough to draw attention without being indecent, she felt. […]

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In the bedroom

Go up to the bedroom. Put on a pair of black knickers and lie on your front on the bed and wait for me. I do as I am told, getting up quickly and leaving the room. My head is in the right place and I want this but I […]

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Opened

Opened

He had me opened up completely. I was on the bench with my legs in a set of makeshift stirrups made from cuffs and attached to a spreader bar which was suspended above me on the ceiling hook. I didn’t want to think about how I looked. It was more […]

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In a Lather

In a Lather

“Up on the edge of the bath now and spread your legs. I want to look at you.” I feel awkward but I do as he says. Something trills inside me a little and my eyes lower, not as as a conscious act of submission but more as a natural […]

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Electrical Connection

Electrical Connection

It has been a while. I am not sure how long a while is or why it has been so long. One thing or another really I suppose. Health and tiredness and life. We have planned to spend time together but somehow it hasn’t happened and so we find ourselves, […]

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laughter

Laughter – take me higher

Laughter is good for you. It is an integral part of social communication and the way that human bonding happens most easily. When people are asked what makes them laugh they will think of jokes and comedians and funny events but actually we laugh most when we are in the […]

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speculum

He bought us a speculum

When His Lordship first announced with some glee, that he had bought us a speculum, I must admit I was fearful. I think he was surprised because I had told him that I often thought about medical play, that it turned me on, and that it was one of my […]

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The power of touch - woman on bed with lingerie touching herself

The power of touch

I am not planning to touch myself but my fingers slip underneath the edge of my knickers and I am gently playing with the small rectangle of hair that he has me keep there, stroking back and forth subconsciously with the back of my fingernail nail. It makes me think of […]

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Picture of naughty schoolgirl sitting waiting on chair

Naughty Schoolgirl

“I thought that you wanted me to be your mentor and now I hear that you have been telling the other girls that I am in love with you.  That’s what you think is it?  That I am in love with you?” “N n no Sir,” I stammer. I feel […]

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exploring bondage

Exploring Bondage

Bondage is an interesting topic for me to write about and it is not something I have written about much before. Synonymous with the image of BDSM, and yet it is probably one of my lesser kinks. Don’t get me wrong, I am happy to be tied, restrained, spread and […]

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electric dreams

Together in Electric Dreams

I find that I dream less these days than I used to when I was younger. Or perhaps, I dream the same amount but it feels less vivid. I often wake knowing I have had a dream but the events seem hard to pinpoint, as if they are less real […]

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orgasm - the story of my O

Orgasm Tales – The Story of my O

I don’t remember how old I was when I had my first orgasm. What I do remember is that I found out it was called an orgasm when I was about 15. Before I realised it had a name, I had masturbated to that point. I had also told my […]

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The Thrill of Shame

The Thrill of Shame

There is a lot that I find uncomfortable about my sexual thoughts and a lot that I would find distressing for others to know about. While they are fantasies in the sense that they turn me on, they are not things that I would ever want to do if that […]

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mummification

Mummification Monday for missy

We have been meaning to try mummification for quite a while. It was actually one of the gifts on our advent calendar this year (and last) but for some reason, something has always come up to stop it from happening. HL had said this year that the gifts which had […]

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Do you really want to hurt me?

I have been hurt sexually before. It wasn’t pleasant. It has happened in a few different ways but I think the thing that hurt me most was rejection. Not an outright knock back, but that night after night realisation that, despite offering everything up, it was not going to happen. […]

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