I know it seems odd to write a post about why nipple play isn’t for me. I am usually positive about most types of play but really nipple play just doesn’t do it for me these days. I could say that this was always the case. And actually going back […]
I used to really enjoy foreplay. And other times I used to find it a chore. Now I don’t think we do it which sounds weird, but bare with me. Foreplay is what you do before sex, right? But what we do is play. Yes, often there is penetration but […]
The advent task today over at The SafeworD/s Club is ‘6 things’ so I decided to write about 6 things that I love about submission. Number 1 : Intensity The first thing I love about submission is the intensity. I have made no secret of the fact that, prior to […]
I have been deliberating what to do with my advent calendar posts this year. I explained in this post that for Advent 2020 we were taking a community approach and creating the tasks on The SWC. I have been posting in the Forum there and also on Twitter but I […]
As long time readers will know, for the past four years I have done some form of D/s Advent Calendar for HL. I began with my Submissive Advent Calendar in 2016 as a way of making a bit of a fuss of HL because he’d had a pretty rubbish year […]
In BDSM, aftercare can be the secret to things being lasting and retaining that sense of magic you share with your play partner. It allows you to feel safe, build trust, and create a strong connection through the shared experience. Although it is the play rather than the aftercare which […]
I was working on a picture to use for the #ComfyUndies theme on Twitter and decided to play around with my image. I often wish that I had a submissive friend to hang out with in real life and although I have many online, the times I get for fun […]
2020 has been such a year. It is hardly conceivable to imagine this time last year that we would be sat where we are right now. Unprecedented is the word on everyone’s lips and it is the only word really which seems to fit. I have written a lot about […]
It is always nice when things come along that you didn’t expect. I am very active on Twitter but my friend Posy knows that I love socks and she tagged me in a #ThighHighThursday photo theme which was being hosted by Indulgent Desires. I had fully intended to tweet an […]
Life Before Impact Play I often think that spanking is like the gateway drug to impact play. These days it is almost mainstream and, in my opinion, that has to be a good thing. Now, while I do feel that nothing beats a good over the knee spanking at the […]
I have written a lot about trust and the need for trust in a D/s relationship such as the one I have with HL. In order to build this level of trust it is important to be honest and open and this can make us vulnerable. I am generally a […]
I have been meaning to do the D/s Diary Project for a while but one thing has led to another and it has never quite happened. The purpose is to provide a snapshot into my life as a submissive wife. I am married to my Dominant, HisLordship and we have […]
I tried to give this image a dungeon feel and, although it was not actually taken in one, I would like to visit a dungeon some time. We had plans before COVID and hopefully when things are back to normal we can plan for this again. I think that there […]
Unrequited love is usually concerned with a love which is not reciprocated for whatever reason. It may be that the object of your desire is unaware of your feelings, or indeed unavailable to you. It might happen that your love for them has continued beyond the point where you were […]
We Will Remember Them The prompt for 4 Thoughts this time is Lest We Forget. May had mentioned a story but I don’t really have a story in me so I thought I would try something else. Marking Remembrance Day has always been something I have done. I was very […]
Simple Sunday is the best. It has been quite a week and it feels good to take some time for us just to be. I am glad to have HL to guide and protect me. Together the world feels better: we celebrate each other’s successes and support during those difficult […]
The Difficulty with our Desires Many of us are never able to have our desires met for one reason or another. This might be to do with the fact that we keep them to ourselves and feel unable to share them, or it might be that we have not found […]
I thought I would get on board with the spooky Halloween themes taking place on many of the memes and try to create an image which fitted the prompt. I know it is very unsubmissive to be summoning a Dominant, but mine is not to question the power of magic. […]
Words turn me on. This is no surprise really as the brain is the largest sex organ but talking the talk is a vital part of arousal for me, and for many others I would assume. In terms of Dominance and submission, I think that words are the key. For […]
I am haunted. Haunted by you. My hands brush my face and I smell you. It catches me off guard as I breathe you in and I am thrown back in time, there with you again. My fingers trace the length of your cock, enjoying the silk of your skin […]