Ask Me Anything Posts
What can we do when we have gone off track? Reader question
Hi Missy, I've just found your blog and I'm so relieved! Thank you so much for your honesty and for sharing so much of your relationship with your Sir, it means so much to feel just a little less isolated...
How do I take account of her needs but still remain Dominant? Reader question
Hi, I’m new to D/s. My girlfriend has been a sub in other relationships. I am excited about trying this out, but I think asking her too many questions like “what kind of discipline do you want” will ruin the...
How can I talk about negatives in a respectful way? Reader question
Hi! I came across your website as I was looking for some information. I am a new submissive and am trying to learn what I can about this lifestyle. This is the second D/s relationship I have been in, but...
Was a D/s lifestyle ever out of the question? Reader question
Missy, I have spent a great deal of time admiring you and your blog, but have a long ways to go... My wife was a school teacher and is still in education. She taught at a religious parochial school for...
How do I go slow without going insane? Reader question
My husband and I are just venturing into the D/s relationship. My type A personality and work don’t make submitting easy outside the bedroom. And his work schedule doesn’t make letting control go easy either. I’m trying to figure out...
What do I do if he is not engaging? – Reader question
Thank you for offering me the opportunity to ask a question. My husband and I have begun our journey into a 24/7 Dom/Sub relationship. I am ALL IN, but he doesn't seem to be. What should I do? What do...
How do you choose a name? Reader question
How did your names for each other arise? It’s something I assumed would be organic (and I imagine should be), yet we still have yet to firmly land on names and it makes it feel less official (as silly as...
How do I encourage Dominance? Reader question
How do you deal with a partner that struggles in being the Dominant? This issue is weighing on my marriage. I discovered my submissive personality and needs about 2 years into our marriage. We're 15 years in now. I wasn't...
How do I share my Daddy? Reader Question
How do I quell my jealous nature when I have to share my Daddy with his daughters? They are adults, but very much Daddy's girls. I try to be the adult but I am his babygirl of 3 years now...
How do I talk about my needs? Reader Question
I have recently started thinking about the Dom/sub lifestyle. I've always liked stuff like that but thought it was wrong or not something I should get aroused or excited about, so I ignored that side of me. Recently my husband...