Married submissive: The love, the kink, the connection
Submissy is about me, Dominance and submission, and about my journey as a married submissive.
I would say that there is nothing very unusual about me. I am a wife, a mother and a teacher, and I live with my husband in a pretty Scottish town. I enjoy reading, travelling and spending time with friends and family. However, in 2012 we began a journey into Dominance and submission and and this changed our lives in a subtle but amazing way.
We have built a lifestyle dynamic which is open, honest and loving and at the same time this has allowed us to explore and experience some of our deep and darkest desires together. The key to things working for us has been communication which has allowed us to truly build the respect and trust we have needed to reach a level of intimacy and intensity that I had only dreamed about before.
Where to go next?
If you would like to know more about how I got here then you might want to start with this post: How I Got Here. If you are interested in introducing a D/s dynamic into you relationship then you might find the D/s for Married Couples page helpful.
I started blogging because I wanted to share my experiences in the hope that someone else out there might make a connection with what I am writing. Please use the categories at the top of the page to check out some of my posts and let me know what you think by commenting on them. If you like what you read then please let me know by hitting the like button or, preferably, follow me.
HisLordship and I have learnt a lot by talking to others and have also made some great friends. It is for this reason that we decided to create The SafeworD/s Club which is an online community for Dominant and submissive couples. Please find out more by visiting the site.
Tell Me About
If you are looking for more information on Dominance and submission then why not check out Tell Me About which I created as a resource to try to collect together many of the voices writing on different aspects of D/s relationships. The site has grown since opening and is now host to some other kink based writing projects, as well as a photo meme, a podcast and my new monthly sexual health prompt, so hopefully you will find something there for you.
Blogable is my newest venture and if you are interested in blogging then it is the site for you. A one stop shop of hints, tips and support, it is a community which I co-host with May More and Marie Rebelle. If you would like help to start a blog, or just want to make more of the space that you have, then why not head over to the Blogable Club and check it out.
Thank you for visiting.
(Updated April 2021)