HisLordship and I have managed to sneak away for a night to a nice hotel, with a nice room, and this rather cool bath. It feels like ages since we had some fun like this together and although the bath and the room are cool, I am hoping that everything else will be sizzlingly hot. Coming away tonight was part of deciding to prioritise us a bit more often and to treat ourselves now and then. I think we lost some of our fun this past while and it will be good to feel a bit more carefree.
I would hate to say that we’d been stuck in a rut and it would seem a bit misleading to do so when some of the things that we enjoy doing are so far from the norm, but I think that in some ways, for us, that is just what has happened. Perhaps a kinky D/s rut is where we have been. We are still doing things which we find exciting and turn us on, and those things pushed our boundaries once upon a time, but we have sort of fallen into a more relaxed and comfortable us. We both want to feel something more again and so that is what we are hoping to rekindle.
So, as I sit her writing this in a hotel bathrobe, I am sipping a slightly strange cocktail and I can see various toys, including the howler, sitting on the table across the room. HL is naked, but reading for now. I don’t suppose it will be long though until he unleashes his other side. I have noticed The Howler and, in light of what he disclosed the other week in terms of admitting his sadistic tendencies, I think I am in for a bit of a ride!
What an incredible match, and those legs!
Thank you ?
Oooh, those are stunning socks/stockings! Lovely!
Thank you. It was an amazing bath too ?
Very jel of your night away! That bath is rather impressive as are those socks and this image is absolutely perfect. You should pitch it to the hotel to use – it is fantastic advertising imo 😉 x
Hehe. I am not sure what they would say about that. Would be cool though. We had a few ideas but it’s often hard to know what will work. This one had just been taken and seemed right as it was, so not even any editing required which allowed me to post it at the time ?
It is awesome – I hope ye had a fantastic weekend x
We really did – thank you ?
Fantastic idea for a photo ? and some lovely tartan clad legs. I want to hear everything when you’ve had your fun and had some rekindling
Thanks PS. It has worked well so far! ?
Now this looks like a right proper way of bringing in the New Year!
Thanks Michael. It has been fun ?
And that pic would be a perfect advertisement for the hotel!! I agree with whom ever suggested that!
I’d love to pitch that to the hotel. Not sure if they would thank us or kick us out lol
If there is a visionary in management, they’d pick this up in an instant.
What a great scene u have created in this shot – wonderful x
Thank you May. The room is fab and there is lots of space and mirrors which definitely makes it easier ?
Awesome tub! … awesome socks! … hope you’ve had a awesome time … letting the sadist loose ;>) … nj … xx
So far so very good Nora so no complaints from me ?
Wow.
I love the coordination of colours with your thigh high socks and the bath. Very sexy image and I hope you have a fantastic time!
Thanks Gem. We are definitely maki)g the most of it! ?
This could go on a kinky postcard! ? love the matching pattern/colours
Thank you. ?
Hope you enjoyed your time away. Perfect colours and light in this image
Missy x
Thank you we did. The light was lucky. I didn’t have to edit it at all which was good ?
Oh so gorgeous . . . and how you managed to match socks and bath panel !!!
Just wonderful !!!
Xxx – K
It’s royal Stewart so pretty common as tartans go so an easy match ? and thank you x
I have those socks! And this image definitely goes into the proof sock are sexy folder in my opinion.
Also that hotel bathroom looks AMAZING
And also I totally get the being a rut thing. It was one of the reasons I always made sure we went out to events because it made us do things but I think your hotel room idea is the same. I hope it helps to inspire you both
Mollyx
I think you are right about events and because we don’t do them it is easy to let things slide. The room was lovely. We should go there if you come to Edinburgh! And yay for the socks are sexy folder. We can get a good image if you bring yours too – double trouble! xx
Ooooh just look at that, your socks and the bath match. I love the image! As for the hotel fun, I look forward to read more about it 😉
Rebel xox
Thank you Marie. I have some good things to write about it actually. Very sexy …..
That is an amazing photo!
Thanks Brigit ?
This looks so pretty! And I am glad to hear that you and HL got a night away, and it sounds like much fun was to be had!
Thank you DS. I am so pleased that we did it as we really did have fun ?
Happy for you guys. We all know how hard it is to get priority time for ourselves. Hope it was great. And what a fantastic pic. I agree with several others…definitely should be pitched to the hotel!!
It was great. Thank you. I’d love to ask the hotel but don’t think I’d have the guts ?
Your legs look insanely long here! Very coordinated too
It was an easy tartan to find so we were in luck! And thank you ❤️
Sexy socks! I love red tartan so extra sexy!
As for making time for yourselves, we’re trying to do this too and even without children it’s not as easy as it sounds.
I know that I shouldn’t feel heartened by this but somehow I do. Always good to know we are not alone ?
Spot on again. I’m becoming addicted to your musings. (Oh, and love the pictures! Am I allowed to say that?)
We too have fallen into dull routine. In our case of functional quickies with no true passion. Most unsatisfying. Although I thing things are taking a turn for the better. God, I hope so!
I think sex can be like a smile. If you are happy you smile. If you are unhappy though, if you force yourself to smile, that can make you feel happy again. Likewise with sex. When you start out, all excited and horny with a new lover, the sex arises from that passion. But, if that passion and intimacy fades over time with the mundanities off everyday life, then “forcing” yourselves to have sex – quality sex – can re-ignite that intimacy and passion for each other. Your night in a hotel is of that nature.
Thank you. Your comment is very kind. I think for us the D/s has improved intimacy and allowed us to retain that excitement. It is still hard as life gets in the way, but we tend to have great sex when it comes ?