HisLordship and I have managed to sneak away for a night to a nice hotel, with a nice room, and this rather cool bath. It feels like ages since we had some fun like this together and although the bath and the room are cool, I am hoping that everything else will be sizzlingly hot. Coming away tonight was part of deciding to prioritise us a bit more often and to treat ourselves now and then. I think we lost some of our fun this past while and it will be good to feel a bit more carefree.
I would hate to say that we’d been stuck in a rut and it would seem a bit misleading to do so when some of the things that we enjoy doing are so far from the norm, but I think that in some ways, for us, that is just what has happened. Perhaps a kinky D/s rut is where we have been. We are still doing things which we find exciting and turn us on, and those things pushed our boundaries once upon a time, but we have sort of fallen into a more relaxed and comfortable us. We both want to feel something more again and so that is what we are hoping to rekindle.
So, as I sit her writing this in a hotel bathrobe, I am sipping a slightly strange cocktail and I can see various toys, including the howler, sitting on the table across the room. HL is naked, but reading for now. I don’t suppose it will be long though until he unleashes his other side. I have noticed The Howler and, in light of what he disclosed the other week in terms of admitting his sadistic tendencies, I think I am in for a bit of a ride!