So the first day of our calendar was ‘Christmas Bake Off’.  In reality this was more of a bake up than a bake off but it was about me doing something nice for HL. Not very sexy I know but I think we have found over time that actually the things that often help us to feel connected to one another don’t need to be sexual. I suppose if your D/s is based around play it would be different but ours is about living a lifestyle where we make a conscious effort to put the other first and try to meet their needs.

I know, of course, that HL doesn’t have a need for a cake mountain but he is partial to the odd piece or two so it seemed like a nice thing to do.  In starting a new job, he also has a new team of people to manage and he seems to like to take them in home bakes now and then so I was also helping him in that way. Obviously I know the saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, and if that is the case I should have generated lots of love.

Sunday’s Christmas Bake Off consisted of Carrot Cake, Millionaire’s Shortbread and Bakewell Blondies and the love that they brought has lasted well into this week (just store in an airtight container for 3-4 days).

To see the other posts in this series, please find more links on D/s Advent Calendar 2019