fun orgasm - 30 day orgasm challenge

It’s back, and O, so am I

Last year I took part in Tabitha Rayne’s 30 day orgasm fun, a challenge about ‘masturbation for a mental health boost‘. Essentially, is about focussing on yourself for the 30 days of April and sort of reconnecting with yourself on a sexual level. Last year was a mixed bag for me. I found it a lot harder than I had anticipated in that I had not masturbated for a long time. I realised that my orgasms well and truly belonged to HL, not just on a symbolic level but on a deeply psychological one too.

In some ways this felt nice, but it also highlighted to us that what we were doing was counter productive in some ways. If I could no longer orgasm without him, then surely he didn’t have complete control after all? My mind is a tricky thing and it took some unpicking to deal with this and release it again to the point where he could really dictate where, when, and how I orgasmed, even if that meant him not actually being present.

We continued with the 30 days and, if you are interested, you can read about my experience in the following posts:
30 Day Orgasm Fun – First Thoughts
30 Day Orgasm Fun – First 10
30 Orgasms and a Dribble

This year I wasn’t sure whether to take part or not, but on reflection I have decided that I will. There are a couple of reasons for this. The first is that hormonal changes have caused a bit of a dunt in my drive so I am hoping that more regular orgasmic experiences can inject some of the old energy back in. The second is that two weeks of April I am off work and so there is a bit more time to play around. HL tends to be horny in the morning, but that is not the time for me. I am hoping that a series of morning orgasms will kick-start my body, and that muscle memory may create a desire there first thing that will match up with his.

So a little dawn to dusk dip into igniting my desire is what I hope to achieve. Although, as well as pollinating my drive, I hope to just have fun and get better at being my own friend.

Posted in Mental Health.


  1. Libido issues can be tricky (I’ve struggled off and on with low libido forever) … but the key is … don’t ever stop trying … you are more likely lose it if you don’t use it :)) … Enjoy!! … nj … xx

    • If you click the link on the post either at the top of the page or on the badge. It was wrong but I have fixed it now so it will take you to tabitha’s blog post. Essentially you just do it and link her and she will add you I think ?

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