Last year I took part in Tabitha Rayne’s 30 day orgasm fun, a challenge about ‘masturbation for a mental health boost‘. Essentially, is about focussing on yourself for the 30 days of April and sort of reconnecting with yourself on a sexual level. Last year was a mixed bag for me. I found it a lot harder than I had anticipated in that I had not masturbated for a long time. I realised that my orgasms well and truly belonged to HL, not just on a symbolic level but on a deeply psychological one too.
In some ways this felt nice, but it also highlighted to us that what we were doing was counter productive in some ways. If I could no longer orgasm without him, then surely he didn’t have complete control after all? My mind is a tricky thing and it took some unpicking to deal with this and release it again to the point where he could really dictate where, when, and how I orgasmed, even if that meant him not actually being present.
We continued with the 30 days and, if you are interested, you can read about my experience in the following posts:
30 Day Orgasm Fun – First Thoughts
30 Day Orgasm Fun – First 10
30 Orgasms and a Dribble
This year I wasn’t sure whether to take part or not, but on reflection I have decided that I will. There are a couple of reasons for this. The first is that hormonal changes have caused a bit of a dunt in my drive so I am hoping that more regular orgasmic experiences can inject some of the old energy back in. The second is that two weeks of April I am off work and so there is a bit more time to play around. HL tends to be horny in the morning, but that is not the time for me. I am hoping that a series of morning orgasms will kick-start my body, and that muscle memory may create a desire there first thing that will match up with his.
So a little dawn to dusk dip into igniting my desire is what I hope to achieve. Although, as well as pollinating my drive, I hope to just have fun and get better at being my own friend.
Glad you decided to give it a try again, hopefully will be some extra fun.
I hope so. I’ve banked three already ?
Wow very good fun then!
It’s just beginners luck I think. The start of the holidays. Good to have some ‘work ons’ though ?
Hehe, was it two in one session, so to speak?
No I got a Bertie Bonus last night from HL ?
Ooo love a Bertie Bonus!
How are your going?
2 for 2 but the day is still young. I think I’m starting to get orgasm gready now I know PS won’t deny me.
That’s funny ?
I’m on 3 sorry, completely forgot about the extra one this morning. Greedy and forgetful!
I think I might aim for 30 overall. That’s what I did last time and I ‘banked’ some. ?
Good for you. You’re going to be in for a busy month then with all this blogging and orgasms.
I might not do them all but I should be ok with the first two weeks off. Then HL can take over ?
You’ll have to cram as many as you can in before then. That’s good of HL to put the effort in too, 14th of April is Palm Sunday after all..
Haha. A spanking orgasm – sounds fun ?
Libido issues can be tricky (I’ve struggled off and on with low libido forever) … but the key is … don’t ever stop trying … you are more likely lose it if you don’t use it :)) … Enjoy!! … nj … xx
It’s not terrible yet but I have noticed a dip. Think it may be hormones but could be work!
I’m blog challenged… where do I find this challenge??
If you click the link on the post either at the top of the page or on the badge. It was wrong but I have fixed it now so it will take you to tabitha’s blog post. Essentially you just do it and link her and she will add you I think ?
Thank you
Have fun!!
Enjoy!!
Thank you ?
I would have trouble with this. It’s so long since I masturbated…
You’ll have to do it for me too!!
Yes I don’t think it would fit with your orgasm control. You could always offer it as a service for your Queen though. That is still taking part ?