A Tail of the Unexpected

Wearing a tail is something that I once fantasised about but it was never something that I expected I would do. It seems funny to look back at that now as it is no longer something that feels forbidden although it does still retain an element of the naughty.  I have not stopped with the fantasies altogether but they have shifted and become much more complex, moving to something involving humiliation which would push and test my current boundaries. The feelings associated with wearing it for Sir were also unexpected and it has moved from being something a bit dangerous and extreme to being something which is much gentler and expresses the fun that we have together.

What I love most about it is the way the soft light fur brushes against my skin and contrasts with the hard heavy weight which sits inside me. I am very aware of it being there and it makes me feel immediately submissive. I suppose it still embraces the element of forbidden, but at the same time makes me feel playful. For me, D/s has always been about the way that contrasts and opposites merge and collide into something which becomes indescribable. I feel myself reaching for words which are seemingly conflicting and yet seem to exist so well together, and for me, wearing a tail encapsulates some of these feelings.

As with most of the kink that we experiment with, it begins as one thing and moves into another as we play with it and push our limits. We spark off each other and things tend to morph and grow as that process plays out. While I feel at ease and comfortable wearing my tail now, I also know that without much effort, Sir can use what has become familiar and take it somewhere completely new where I will be left spinning with a whole host of emotions I am not expecting. Exploring the unexpected together is part of the pleasure, the excitement and the feeling of growth, and is also part of what binds us and connects us on such a deep and intimate level.

Sinful Sunday
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  1. “Exploring the unexpected together is part of the pleasure,” – I totally get this and I feel exactly the same.
    You look very sexy wearing your tail and I love the curve of your bottom that falls away into your beautiful waist

        • I think I would do that if I was going to a club or something (where it was acceptable) but in my head I have snapshots of humiliation play where the fact that I am wearing it (in a vanilla setting) is exposed to others. I feel so nervous even just typing that that I know it would be a huge trigger for my submissive space!

    • Thank you. Do you mean to wear a tail as a Dom? Or to make someone else wear one? What I love is that so many of the things that people do can work for either party as often the power exchange is to do with the intention behind the act, rather than the act itself. ?

    • Thank you. I feel quite comfortable with it now but it still feels a bit naughty and I am never sure quite where things will go ?

  2. I love the look of this, it’s a glorious photo. The simplicity of the shot just works so well to highlight you and your sexy tail.
    I’d love to get a tail, but would want faux fur that didn’t feel artificial (don’t want much do I?)

    • Thank you. I only really feel the light wispiness of it as it brushes my legs so it feels pretty good and not too artificial. It’s much lighter than proper hair would be though I think ?

  3. Absolutely stunning photo and the accompanying words are just perfect. You describe the experience beautifully x x

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