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My Life as a Submissive Wife: living as a married submissive

Married Submissive Journal

Posts detailing the highs and lows of loving and living as a married submissive in a full time Dominant submissive relationship.

Play, Scenes and Kink

Find out more about our play, scenes and the kinky things we get up to as we explore facets of BDSM and out deep and dark desires

My Submissive Musings

My submissive musings posts contain random thoughts, ponderings and inspiration on all things Dominance and submission.

Building a D/s Dynamic

Posts about building and maintaining a D/s dynamic within an already established relationship and living as a married submissive in a full time power exchange.

Married Submissive: The love, the kink and the connection

submissy - submissive wife

Welcome to submissy. This site is about me, my journey into submission and my life as a married submissive.

A wife, a mother and a teacher, I became missy when I entered into a full time D/s dynamic with my husband. I started blogging in order to share my experience and to learn from, and support, others.

Submissy is a collection of writing based on my own experience and reflection as a married submissive, but I hope that you will also find it informative and helpful.

New to submissy? You might find these pages helpful

Useful Posts

A selection of some of the key posts on establishing a D/s dynamic, play and growth

D/s for Married Couples

Relevant posts for those starting out in a married Dominant and submissive relationship.

Contact Me

If you would like to get in touch, then please send me a message via my contact page.

Other Projects: memes and series

Posts on aspects of Dominance and submission as part of the Tell Me About Project
Writing which aims to promote honesty and openness, and challenge some of the stigma surrounding mental ill health.
D/s ideas and tasks to celebrate advent but useful for inspiration all year round.

Spank Me?

An exploration into the joys and thrills of spanking

Humiliate Me?

Explore the thrills and excitement of erotic humiliation

Find out more about Feeling Good

A celebration of posts on health, sexuality and style.

Recent Feeling Good Posts

Be daring and find ways to surrender

And now … for something sexier


Go on, Ask Me Anything

A collection of answers to questions form readers.

Recent Ask Me Anything Posts

What can we do when we have gone off track? Reader question

How do I take account of her needs but still remain Dominant? Reader question

April's Submissive Training

Ever wanted to visit a Submissive Training School?

Follow April as she travels through the alphabet during her stay as she completes the novice programme.

Although the posts are based in a fictional setting of a submissive training school, the content is based on real life experience and knowledge about the aspects of Dominance and submission which are covered.


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Tell Me About

Is home to writing projects and resources on lifestyle topics with a twist.

It is a collection of links to Alternative Lifestyle Writing, Erotic Photography and the Tell Me About Podcast

With a weekly photography meme, a fortnightly writing prompt on Dominance and submission, as well as kinky DIY projects and sexual health we hope to share and learn by creating a resource which is a collection of relevant writing from individual blogs.

Come along and check out what we have to offer.

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The SafeworD/s Club

Is an online community for Dominant and submissive couples, hosted by myself and HisLordship.

Please pay a visit to our chat rooms and forums where you can meet and make friends, ask questions and learn from the experiences of others.

We also have a blog with a range of posts on topics related to D/s if you are looking for information.

Don’t forget to check the calendar for current events; we hope to see you there.

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Is co-founded by myself, May More and Marie Rebelle and is a safe place for bloggers to share, learn and benefit from our blogging experience.

Membership allows you a range of benefits such as access to all posts, forums where you can ask questions and share your thoughts, and a member's area where you can connect with others and build up your own blogging network.

Membership is free and offers you up-to-date information on all our Blogging Tips and Tricks.

So if you are a blogger, or would like to be, why not head over to Blogable and let us help you.

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